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A journal of life with IVF and whatever unconventional baby-making methods that work
Whatever art form it takes—photo, video, graphic or craft—some predicaments in life need more than words to express the truth. IVF is not just a medical treatment, it is a way of life. Now surrogacy is my road. I intend to be a parent, however it works. This blog is my commitment to writing and visually creating what I mean by this. There may be an art to getting pregnant but there is equally an art to being infertile.
Reproductive Data
3 unmedicated IUIs- BFN
2 IUIs with clomid- BFN
IVF#1 - BFP - but ectopic
IVF#2 - BFP - but miscarried
IVF#3- BFP - but another ectopic
IVF#4 - BFP- but chemical
IVF#5 w/GC - BFN
IVF#6 w/GC and DE - BFP!!!
Baby Girl Born February 2010!
Frozen Cycle w/GC Nov 2010- BFP!
Sibling Due date- July 31, 2011
Diagnosed with blood clotting disorders- elevated levels of
lupus anti coagulant, anti phosphatydylserine, and mthfr (one copy). Who the hell knows what's wrong, no one can really figure this out.
Labels
- Adventures of Little Miss Positive (6)
- Animation/Video (9)
- Audio (1)
- Baby (5)
- Birth (1)
- China Trip (6)
- Craft Therapy (2)
- Donor Egg (55)
- Graphics (11)
- IVF Christmas Cards (11)
- IVF#3 (9)
- IVF#4 (4)
- IVF#5 (9)
- IVF#6 (8)
- motherhood (17)
- Musings (1)
- Photo (5)
- Pregnancy (34)
- Sibling Project (6)
- Surrogacy (84)
- Top Ten List (10)
Followers
31 comments:
Oh no... :( I'm so, so sorry to see this news. I know it's no consolation right now, but just because it didn't work this time doesn't mean surrogacy won't work. You've gotten BFPs on your other cycles, so you know your embies can make it...it looks like the quality just wasn't great this time and it will take another cycle. Please don't give up. Hugs.
oh shit! so so sorry, oh freak I am so sorry. hugs. sending prayers and hugs your way sweetie.
Those 3 letters are my least favorite letter combination :( I am so incredibly sorry that you are experiencing this. I know it's not a consolation to hear "there's always next time," but IVF never disappoints in always being unpredictable and each cycle is always so different, so as N said - please, please don't give up on this!! This can work. It totally sucks to have to dig deep again and find the strength at a time like this, but you can do it, I know you can. But I'm so sorry this cycle didn't have the outcome we were all hoping it would for you. :(
I hate it! I was so hopeful. Sorry do
The worst three letters in the world. My inclination is to let fly every curse word I know and some I don't. I hate this for you, Tabi. Take time for yourself, lick your wounds, be fiscally irresposible and buy some expensive shoes, drink alcohol in copious amounts and then, when you're ready, chart your next steps. In the meantime, I'll be cursing for you.
I am so sorry. I was so hopeful.
i'm so sorry tabi.
Oh no, no, no. I am so sorry for you and for your surro. What a disappointment.
shit shit shit...not fair. My heart breaks with you Tabi. I am so very sorry. Megan
Tabi, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I wish I had something useful to say, other than this sucks,I'm with Melanie and my natural reaction is to curse, alot. Take time to take care of you, so not fair.
I'm so sorry.
I am so, so sorry. HUGS.
I am truly sorry. I know the excutiating pain of that news.
As others have stated- when you read your history it is clear, your eggs do produce pregnancies and this was just the first with your surro.
Don't lose hope. I know that is easier said than done and probably the last thing you are thinking of.
Along with the others, my prayers will go to you today...
I'm so sorry.
hugs, a million hugs.
I'm so sorry.
oh Tabi, I'm so sorry. Big hugs and thinking of you. Please take care and look after yourself.
oh crap, tabi. I'm so very sorry. like everyone else I was feeling hopeful for you. this sucks.
:-( I'm sorry.
Oh no :( :(
I'm so very sorry.
xx
Shit. This totally sucks, Tabi.
Much love to you. And wishes for creature comforts to get you through this, until you're ready to give it another shot (if that's your path).
Damn! I'm so sorry.
This sucks bad! So sorry!
I wish I had something super-comforting and awesome to offer, but shit. I can't even begin to imagine what you're feeling right now.
Try to hang in there, lady. I'm always here if you need a real-life shoulder to cry on.
My heart sank. I'm just so sorry. I know there are simply no words, so I'll quit trying.
You're not alone.
I'm really sorry. How disappointing for your surro and how heartbreaking for you.
I hope that the future holds better hope and luck and a baby for you.
Sending you some hugs,
I am so, so sorry, Tabi. Those three letters are awful. I agree with N: please don't give up. Take care if yourself this weekend.
Here from LFCA...
So sorry about the BFN.
Take care.
I'm so very sorry, tabi.
Thinking of you.
I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry!
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