tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post195501395218246121..comments2023-09-21T12:02:16.904-04:00Comments on The Art of Being Infertile: Oh surrogate, surrogate, wherefore art thou surrogate?TABIhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17012958263294398438noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-47124859882893452182008-10-27T10:03:00.000-04:002008-10-27T10:03:00.000-04:00Hmmm.... here in Canada we can now put three names...Hmmm.... here in Canada we can now put three names on a birth certificate. This was urged on by two mom couples who wanted their "sperm donor's" name on the BC as well as both of theirs. It has the unintended side effect of easing the way for surrogacy situations too.... But surrogacy is only legal here for compassionate reasons (read no compensation). <BR/>I wish you luck in your search. I was tentatively matched with IP's here and they backed out just prior to my screening appointment with the RE. No reason... I can only attribute it to us not "clicking" so much...<BR/>Online fertility dating is EXACTLY the reality of the situation. One couple I passed on said, "well your a woman, with a uterus. You're perfect." (Too much too quick).<BR/><BR/>Anyway. I wish you luck. I'm assuming you have tried SMO?DEMummiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11611773680892761356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-88120900533372119982008-10-21T17:35:00.000-04:002008-10-21T17:35:00.000-04:00I pray you find your perfect surrogate soon! Have...I pray you find your perfect surrogate soon! Have you considered traditional surrogacy?Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07378625679676892633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-79836360472842968712008-10-21T14:48:00.000-04:002008-10-21T14:48:00.000-04:00I have soooo many questions about how the matching...I have soooo many questions about how the matching process goes, etc. But I'll bug you with those next time I see you in person.<BR/><BR/>God, I cannot wait for the day we've both (finally) gotten our biggest wish granted. <BR/><BR/>Thanks, as always, for being there, lady!peesticksandstoneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13194814462876179308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-40884106602814044212008-10-18T16:50:00.000-04:002008-10-18T16:50:00.000-04:00What a pity we live on opposite ends of the earth ...What a pity we live on opposite ends of the earth (I'm in south africa)...you sound like exactly what I'm hoping to find in my future-IP's ;)<BR/><BR/>All the best with your journey, I hope you find what you're looking for!!!<BR/><BR/>x<BR/>YvonneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-57611216493845175732008-10-17T08:25:00.000-04:002008-10-17T08:25:00.000-04:00Online fertility dating: love that! It is true. ...Online fertility dating: love that! It is true. I hope you find her soon, and you will know when you have. When I found ours, it was bizarre how much of a connection there was. It felt meant to be.KH99https://www.blogger.com/profile/03103965236771370684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-89261720822661359082008-10-16T14:10:00.000-04:002008-10-16T14:10:00.000-04:00I hope that you find her soon. You have every righ...I hope that you find her soon. You have every right to hold out for the right person. You are doing the right thing and will be so worth it when you find her!Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04748630470893294294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-42873256384942613212008-10-15T20:44:00.000-04:002008-10-15T20:44:00.000-04:00finding the perfect surrogate often feels like try...finding the perfect surrogate often feels like trying to find a needle in a haystack. i hope that you find an amazing princess charming, in a state that will not make you go through the adoption process. since we are using an egg donor i am going to have to do a step-parent adoption no matter where we go. thankfully the hoops that we have to jump through are a lot easier than doing a "regular" adoption, or at least that is what my social worker friends tell me. <BR/><BR/>please let me know if there is anything i can do for you.Jaymeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386596837111351204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-287746066887452762008-10-15T18:53:00.000-04:002008-10-15T18:53:00.000-04:00Tabi,It's totally like that. I feel so odd it's li...Tabi,<BR/>It's totally like that. I feel so odd it's like on line dating. We think/hope/pray that we have found our someone special, and when we met her, it was amazing. Like meeting an old friend that you haven't seen in years.<BR/>Hang in there, keep on looking.Nadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-62834263893659694202008-10-15T18:51:00.000-04:002008-10-15T18:51:00.000-04:00Hi - first visit to your blog but I am glad that I...Hi - first visit to your blog but I am glad that I found it!<BR/><BR/>Hopefully you will find a surrogate who lives in a PBO state.<BR/><BR/>You will find her and make that connection. I am so glad that you are open to a something more relationship. That's what truly makes the journey. I will have my fingers crossed for you and I am adding you to my blog list.Sarah Andrewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06049343694922415344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4334852929340917200.post-82576592909741093052008-10-15T17:51:00.000-04:002008-10-15T17:51:00.000-04:00I hope you are able to find here soon. Sorry the f...I hope you are able to find here soon. Sorry the first one didn't work out, that is crazy that they would make you go through adoption first!aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026378388609134143noreply@blogger.com